Do You Sin
Against Your Parents?
Young people, have you ever noticed how easy it is to take things
out on your family? Often things that you would never say or do to anyone else,
you would say or do to someone in
your own family. While a certain degree of this phenomenon can probably be
chalked up to the high level of comfort most of us feel toward our family
members, we certainly don’t want to be guilty of committing sins against those
we love. When we sin against anyone, we are also sinning against the Lord (I Cor
You may be growing up, but you are not too
old to obey your parents. Lord willing the day will come when you will get
married, cleave to your husband or wife, and make your own decisions apart from
our parents. But until such time as you ARE an adult who lives away from home
you MUST OBEY them! Paul taught us that this obedience is well pleasing to the
Lord (
If you’re not careful, you will overlook an
important piece of Paul’s statement in Ephesians 6:1. “Honor” is just as
crucial as obedience for us to be pleasing to God. Obviously one can obey without giving honor. When was the last time you stopped to honestly think about
everything your parents do for you? This makes disrespecting them that much
sadder. You can disrespect and shame your parents by being lazy (Prov 10:5), by
mistreating them (Prov
John wrote, “I have no greater joy than to
hear that my children walk in truth” (III John 4). It must equally be true that
a godly parent has no worse grief than to hear that their child walks apart
from God. Don’t miss heaven because of sins against your parents.